美樂地家庭 Melody Family Podcast

Sign up for 12/19 NYC meet-up: https://forms.gle/b6vahJNB4e32USAk6🎧 有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題嗎？到 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox 投稿！Got a question or story for the podcast? 👉 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox0:00 12/19 NYC meetup announcement｜12/19 紐約線下聚會公告0:38 Episode preview｜本集預告1:08 Episode start｜節目開始1:18 Reading audience member's question｜讀觀眾來信4:17 Mom's initial response｜媽媽的第一反應5:05 Common question: What is my calling?｜常見問題：我的呼召是什麼？5:43 What is “convergence”?｜什麼是「匯聚點」？6:25 Dad's initial response｜爸爸的第一回應8:03 Does everyone care about calling?｜每個人都在乎呼召嗎？8:51 Calling doesn't mean full-time ministry｜呼召 ≠ 全職服事9:19 Mom on “Ekklesia”｜媽媽談「Ekklesia（教會）」11:36 Transforming culture starts with family｜改變文化從家庭開始12:53 Every calling is important｜每個呼召都很重要17:03 Mom encourages family inheritance｜媽媽談屬靈與家庭傳承21:56 Inheritance doesn’t mean family business｜傳承 ≠ 接家業23:08 Melody on not having to do what people expect｜Melody：你不需要活在他人的期待裡27:19 Mom’s sadness for Taiwanese highschoolers｜媽媽對台灣高中生的心疼30:34 No more jobs in the future?｜未來真的會沒有工作嗎？35:17 THIS is the will of God for your life｜「這個」才是神對你人生的旨意37:55 Happiness vs. joy｜快樂 vs. 喜樂40:07 God commands us to do these three things｜神給我們的三個命令41:24 The importance of joy｜為什麼喜樂很重要43:04 Conclusion｜結語━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

Sign up for 12/19 NYC meet-up: https://forms.gle/b6vahJNB4e32USAk6🎧 有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題嗎？到 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox 投稿！Got a question or story for the podcast? 👉 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox0:00 12/19 NYC meetup announcement｜12/19 紐約線下聚會公告0:21 preview｜精彩預告1:05 intro｜節目開場1:53 Dad on covenant vs contract｜爸爸談「盟約」與「契約」的差別2:45 why Melody doesn’t like that answer｜為什麼 Melody 不喜歡這個答案3:30 the bonding power of sex｜性所帶來的連結力量4:45 other reasons why people want to live together｜人們想同居的其他原因7:43 why modern dating is so superficial｜為什麼現代約會如此表面9:43 what is the purpose of the wedding ritual｜婚禮儀式存在的意義11:12 marriage belongs to God｜婚姻屬於神11:58 God can redeem everything｜神能救贖一切12:52 what is the solution to modern dating?｜現代約會問題的解方是什麼？14:30 how to get to know someone?｜要如何真正了解一個人？15:29 men have a hard time opening up｜男性普遍難以敞開17:09 the importance of friendship｜友誼的重要性19:44 the secret to making friends｜交朋友的秘訣23:40 importance of maintaining curiosity in relationships｜在關係中保持好奇心的重要26:48 how to show up for your friends｜如何陪伴與支持朋友31:10 importance of vulnerability｜脆弱的重要性33:10 basic requirement for marriage｜婚姻的基本要求33:59 Melody wasn’t always like this｜Melody 並非一直都如此36:14 learning to be with others and by yourself｜學習與他人相處，也學習與自己相處━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

Mentioned in the video, full song "I'm Not Your Savior": https://youtu.be/3im6ULLfH7Q?si=KXTExnHeTOOMxhwa0:30 開場介紹 intro 1:07 美樂地信箱：讀者投稿來信 Melody Mailbox: Reading viewer's submission 3:33 我們的第一反應 initial response 4:16 爸爸對於同居的看法 Dad's thoughts on cohabitation 4:43 每個人的價值觀都不同 people have different values 5:35 親密關係是建立在承諾之上 intimacy grows with commitment 7:55 神的誡命背後的心意 the purpose of God's commandments 8:17 為什麼不能同居？ why can't we live together? 15:43 Melody 分享歌曲〈I'm Not Your Savior〉 Melody's song “I'm Not Your Savior” 17:35 Melody 的第一點：你不能「拯救」一個人 Melody's first point: you can't “save” someone. 20:42 第二點：人不是車，不能「試駕」 2nd point: people are not cars 22:08 第三點：為什麼急著結束單身？ 3rd point: why rush through singleness? 27:29 媽媽為孩子的禱告 Mom's prayer for her children ━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

💬 有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題或主題嗎？🎧 Submit your question or story for the podcast here → melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox0:00 intro0:35 Dad’s wishlist for his 67th birthday4:26 Why my friends think my dad is super cool5:37 How my dad deals with phone and internet temptation8:31 God’s assignments often look different from what we expect12:21 How Mom and my brother understand God’s calling14:43 The changes Mom has seen in Dad20:09 My brother honoring our dad21:41 Why I love my dad so much22:41 What Dad has learned from being a father24:43 How Dad got along with Grandpa when he was young27:06 Dad’s most cherished moments with my brother30:31 How men actually bond with each other33:46 My brother once wanted to start a podcast—why he didn’t37:28 Why my parents aren’t like most traditional Asian parents0:00 intro0:35 爸爸67歲生日有什麼願望清單4:26 為什麼朋友都覺得我爸超酷5:37 我爸爸如何面對手機的誘惑8:31 上帝的託付其實跟我們想得不太一樣12:21 媽媽和弟弟怎麼理解神的託付14:43 媽媽看到爸爸的那些改變20:09 弟弟尊榮爸爸的時刻21:41 我為什麼這麼喜歡爸爸22:41 爸爸從父親身分裡學到什麼24:43 爸爸年輕時怎麼跟爺爺相處27:06 爸爸最懷念與弟弟的精心時刻30:31 男生之間到底怎麼相處33:46 弟弟曾經也想做Podcast但後來為什麼沒有37:28 為什麼我爸媽不像大多數華人父母━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

💬 有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題或主題嗎？🎧 Submit your question or story for the podcast here → melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox0:00 開場介紹0:31 講員簡介1:01 我爸媽為什麼會信主？3:09 David 為什麼會移民到美國？4:41 我爸爸很好奇：David 為什麼辭掉高薪工作去讀神學院？8:52 出生在基督教家庭的 David，為什麼長大後仍願意全職服事？11:28 我爸爸竟然是因為「辯論」而信主？15:05 服事超過 32 年，他在華人教會中看見了什麼？16:27 華人教會目前面臨哪些危機？21:10 服事與家庭該如何取得平衡？25:53 服事生涯中最喜樂的時刻是什麼？28:26 最近有沒有從神而來的新啟示？0:00 Introduction0:31 Speaker Introduction1:01 How did my parents come to know Christ?3:09 Why did David immigrate to the U.S.?4:41 My dad was curious — why did David quit his high-paying job to attend seminary?8:52 Born in a Christian family, why does David still choose to serve full-time?11:28 My dad came to faith… because of a debate?15:05 After 32 years of ministry, what has he observed in Chinese churches?16:27 What crises are Chinese churches facing today?21:10 How can one balance ministry and family life?25:53 What has been the most joyful moment in his ministry journey?28:26 Has he received any recent revelations from God?━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

🎧 有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題嗎？到 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox 投稿！Got a question or story for the podcast? 👉 melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox Music by Mr. Jello - Dandelion - https://thmatc.co/?l=C1BA142A━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

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Catch up on our first episode 回顧我們的第一集：https://youtu.be/ZeE0ZQM4fTwThanks to Eric Jeng for being on my podcast! Follow him here:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ericjengInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericj3ng/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ericj3ng━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

有想讓我們在節目中聊的問題或主題嗎？在這裡分享你的故事、提出問題，或洽談合作：melodyhwangmusic.com/mailbox🎙️ Submit your question or topic for the podcast, share your story, or reach out for collaborations***Discussion Questions 討論問題***I) What is the purpose of dating, and am I dating with that in mind?約會的目的究竟是什麼？我是否是帶著這樣的目的在約會？2) How would I live differently if I saw singleness as a gift to treasure and use wisely and not as something to get rid of as soon as possible? 如果我把單身看作是一份值得珍惜並要明智使用的禮物，而不是急著想擺脫的狀態，我的生活會有什麼不同？3) When have I “played games” in relationships and why? What would dating look like if I was completely honest? 在感情中我曾經「玩遊戲」是什麼時候？為什麼？如果我完全誠實，約會會是什麼樣子？4) How should I go about dating someone so that their future spouse would be glad he/she dated me first, even if that future person may be me)? 我該如何與人約會，才能讓他們未來的配偶（甚至那個人可能就是我自己）會感到慶幸他/她曾經先與我交往過？5) How has Hollywood distorted my view on love and marriage? If marriage is a choice, what sort of information do I need before I make this choice?好萊塢如何扭曲了我對愛情與婚姻的看法？如果婚姻是一個選擇，在做這個選擇之前，我需要哪些資訊？Music by CFEQ - Over the top - https://thmatc.co/?l=E4D38F9B0:00 Intro0:26 Why did I choose to read this book?1:49 What’s the structure and main idea of this book?2:20 Is dating just for fun?4:44 Is being single really a problem that needs to be “fixed”?8:24 Is playing mind games essential in a relationship?10:12 Is heartbreak an unavoidable part of breaking up?14:42 Do you need a “magical feeling” to know it’s right to get married?0:00　開場0:26　為什麼我會選這本書？1:49　這本書的整體架構與重點2:20　約會只是為了好玩嗎？4:44　單身真的是一個需要被「解決」的狀態嗎？8:24　在交往中，心機真的那麼重要嗎？10:12　心碎是分手時無法避免的過程嗎？14:42　一定要有「特別的感覺」才適合結婚嗎？━━ 𝄞 ━━Want to Support Melody? 想支持 Melody 嗎？🎵 Buy Music | 購買音樂作品：https://www.patreon.com/c/melodyhwangmusic/shop🌐 Official Website | 官方網站：https://melodyhwangmusic.com/📷 Follow on Instagram | 追蹤 Instagram：https://www.instagram.com/melodyhwangmusic/📘 Facebook：https://www.facebook.com/MelodyHwangMusic/♪ TikTok：https://www.tiktok.com/@melodyhwangmusic🎧 Listen on Spotify | 在 Spotify 收聽：https://open.spotify.com/artist/52e0wXkFGvfA08sx6yqE5G💸 Donate through PayPal | 使用 PayPal 奉獻：https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=4Y7JBH39BC4WL📬 Donate through Modern Day (U.S. tax deductible) 透過 Modern Day 奉獻（美國可抵稅）：https://www.modernday.org/melodyhwang

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